What transracial adoption is and the
challenges you will face. What to expect and the reasons why this could be for
you.
Transracial adoption is placing a
child of a different race or ethnic background with parents who are not of the
same race or ethnic origin.
This is usually referring to children who are of a different
color and race, placing them with Caucasian parents; with the knowledge that it
shouldn't make a difference to the love and care they will receive from their
adoptive parents.
There are much more children
available of a different race and color, compared to the availability of
Caucasian children. Couples wishing to adopt feel the need to reach out to any child,
regardless of the color or ethnic background. There are mixed opinions on this
as it is viewed that children may fare better with a family where one parent is
of the same race, whilst others believe that race doesn't matter at all.
Preparing for adoption is always an
important matter, but in transracial adoption there are even more concerns that
you need to think about. What are your reasons for a transracial adoption - is
it down to your beliefs; what are your feelings about race and different ethnic
origins. Look at the area in which you live in, the community and in the
schools. How many different cultures are there and how are they accepted by
Caucasians? If it is widely accepted, then going ahead with a transracial
adoption could be right for you.
It is important that as parents you
do not allow any racial or ethnic prejudice remarks to enter your home. All
your family should be supportive of your decision, and be happy to continue to help
your child not to forget their ethnic background. You can do this by cooking
traditional food and learning about the different culture and language. This is
a huge benefit for all in acceptance. You should let your child that you will
always love and protect no matter what prejudices they may encounter and help
them to grow and love themselves. They also need to be taught how to teach
others how to be more accepting, instead of starting a fight or verbal abuse.
Not all agencies are open to
Transracial adoption policies, as it is a sensitive area to broach. Always find
out about an agency before using them. In 1994 the subject of Transracial
Adoption was brought out in a bill before congress. After much debate, an
agreement was reached that adults from all different backgrounds should help
all adopted children to reach their full potential in life, regardless of where
they came from.
It was after World War 2 when
transracial began due to the large number of children left homeless or without
any family to care for them. Many American couples were family orientated so
even if they had their own children, they felt they needed more to complete the
family. By adopting transracially, it was accepted that the family would
probably become a minority, being open to strange looks and remarks; some were
even ostracized. Research proves that children brought up in a transracial
environment handled the cultural differences better than their parents. Parents
had to work harder than parents of the same race, to make sure their children were
taught about the diversity of cultures, races and religions. They also helped
to empower them to handle social situations.
Transracial adoption can be
successful and the right family can enjoy the wonderful experience. All the
effort is worthwhile in the end - very rewarding!

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